Look, you're growing older each and everyday. And in those each and everyday, you're learning about yourself, your friends, your family, and about society itself. At a point, things will seem like everything is going wrong, and at another point, everything will seem as if it's perfect. Life as a freshman isn't easy. I understand, there are stress and pressures you have to deal with. School gets harder and sometimes, you just feel like giving up because of that one C, D, or even F. But then again, this part of life (high school) is when you will go through the biggest phase of your life. This part of life will change your whole life and it will determine what it will be like after high school and in college. You're stubborn at this point and of course, no one can tell you what to do because you won't listen. The only person who can have that affect is your girlfriend. The reason why your girlfriend has so much impact because the intimate bond you share with her, is something you can't share with anyone else like your friends or family. When times are rough, you turn to her for guidance, for comfort, which is why you feel as if she comes before everyone else. But I want you to know that your choice of having her coming before everyone else is erroneous and stupid. Family always comes first because they love you unconditionally. NO MATTER who you are, what you do, family will ALWAYS take you back and love you. Friends leave, girlfriends leave. It may seem so surreal that you and your girlfriend will be together for a long time, and that could be the case... but one day, you're going to feel heartbreak. Your heart is going to fall into pieces and what will you do then? Who will you turn to? If you lose all your friends, then you'll have no one, but you'll always have family because no matter what stupid decisions you've made in life, we're still here... loving you 110%. Of course, you will disagree with me, and still have Julie before everyone else, and that's fine because it's only in a matter of time when you will realize everything. Just don't let it be too late because at that point, you can't change anything, anymore. Friends will always be there. If they had the heart to confront you about you putting Julie before all your friends then they really care because why would you do such a thing? It's heartless of you to say that you would put a girl that won't be there forever over your friends who care for you and who wants the GOOD Denny Co back in their lives. I want you to grow up into a good man, into a man with moral and decency to choose good choices in life. But more or less, whatever you desire to do right now, follow your heart and do it because experiences are the teachers in your life. You can't learn if you haven't been through it. So, all in all, think twice before you do anything because it can affect everything and everybody. Just know that as bad as things can get, you will always have people that will love you and care for you. Always.
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