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Sunday, November 29, 2009

Formsprings ?

It seems that this is what everyone's doing. But since i don't like typical things. . I'm going to make this a little "different" I'm going to select only one submission a day or good questions, and post it here. This just shows that i dont want my time wasted, and i'm sure you dont either. So, give me a good question.

NOVEMBER 29, 2009

- Has there been someone that's truly impacted your life?


Yes, there has been. Even though you didn't ask who, i'm going to say so anyways , even though there's more than one; Annie Bui, Alvin Truong, JonathanNguyen(because he was there for me when there was no one), Bonnie Do (because she defined the words and was my closestest friend) and last but not least, Julie Nguyen.

[ don't ask why i have two reasons for two people, if youre really smart, you should know ]
- why do you turn on peoples backs so much just to get information?

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ere's the stupid answer ; this was a flaw that i had with my all my life. But then as i went through it, i realize because of my wrong-doing it led to so many problems and situations that i felt that i needed to stop. And i did, but as i grew up, it came back, my flaws came back, and i had to admit , this one. Usually when i do this, it wasnt because for my benefits, but for others. Others wanted to know something, others asked me, and so i did. I'm not saying that i didnt do this for myself, because i do admit that there was a point in time where i did. All i'm saying is, I did this, because of who i was, it was a flaw i always had. And im sure many of you have flaws aswell, but thats what you need to accept. You need to accept people for their flaws, and put up with them anyways, It took me over 14 years to realize this, but the bad thing is that i didnt realize it soon enough. And that led to so many friendships going V "

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nd here's another answer. ( i like this one better )


People have flaws for a reason. People do the things they do for a reason. Everything has a reason. Everything happens for a reason. EVERYONE has flaws. I have flaws, you have flaws. We have flaws. They have flaws. All of us have flaws. And as you grow up having friends, some of them will leave you because of these flaws. "Because of going behind people's backs" This will lead you to having many friendships, thats the good thing. But the bad thing, is those friendships collapsing in the end. It's not about what flaw you have. It's about who's willing to put up with those flaws. It' about who's willing to put up with other people's actions. It's about accepting people for those flaws. It's about accepting yourselves for those flaws. Because i have. And i know, that flaws don't go away , but in the end, you just have to see who's going to put up with your pathetic self and imperfect personality.